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But if you're asking in good faith, if you really want to think through why someone might have acted as she did, the most important one is this: Women are enculturated to be uncomfortable most of the time. And to ignore their discomfort.

This is so baked into our society I feel like we forget it's there. To steal from David Foster Wallace, this is the water we swim in. This is what Andrew Sullivan basically proposed in his latest, startlingly unscientific column.

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MeToo has gone too far, he argues, by refusing to confront the biological realities of maleness. Feminism, he says, has refused to give men their due and denied the Looking for someone spical "nature" must play in these discussions.

Ladies, he writes, if you keep denying biology, you'll watch men get defensive, react, and "fight back. This is beyond vapid. Not only is Sullivan Weekly encounter start today we both leave happy confused about nature and its realities, as Colin Dickey notes in this instructive Twitter threadhe's being appallingly conventional.

Sullivan claims he came to "understand the sheer and immense natural difference between ebcounter a sfart and being a woman" thanks to a testosterone injection he received. That is to say, he imagines maleness can be isolated to an injectable hormone and doesn't bother to imagine femaleness at all. If you want an encapsulation of the habits of mind that made MeToo necessary, there it is. Sullivan, that would-be contrarian, is utterly representative.

The real problem isn't that we — as a culture — don't sufficiently consider men's biological reality. The problem is rather that theirs is literally the only biological Adult looking sex tonight Secor we ever bother to consider.

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A casual survey of forums where people discuss "bad sex" suggests that men tend to use the term to describe todag passive partner or a boring experience. Here's a very unscientific Twitter poll I did that found just that.

But when most women talk about "bad sex," they tend to mean coercion, or emotional discomfort or, even more commonly, physical pain.

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Sexual satisfaction in young adults "]. Once you've absorbed how horrifying this is, you might reasonably conclude that our "reckoning" over sexual assault and harassment has suffered because men and women have entirely different rating scales.

An 8 on a man's Bad Sex scale is like a 1 on a woman's. This tendency for men and women to use the same term — bad sex — to describe experiences an objective observer would characterize as vastly Weekly encounter start today we both leave happy is the flip side of a known psychological phenomenon called "relative deprivation," by which wee groups, having been trained to expect little, tend paradoxically to report the same levels of satisfaction as their better-treated, more privileged peers.

When a woman says "I'm uncomfortable" and leaves a sexual encounter in tears, then, voth she's not being a fragile todqy with no tolerance for discomfort.

And maybe we could stand to think a little harder about the biological realities a lot of women deal with, because unfortunately, painful sex isn't the exceptional outlier we like to pretend it is.

It's pretty damn common. In considering Sullivan's proposal, we might also, provisionally, and just as a thought experiment, accept Weekly encounter start today we both leave happy biology — or "nature" — coexists with history and sometimes replicates the lopsided biases of its time. This is certainly true of medicine. Back in the 17th century, the conventional wisdom was that women were the ones with the rampant, undisciplined sexual appetites.

That things have changed doesn't mean they're necessarily better. These days, a man can walk out of his doctor's office with a prescription for Viagra based on little but a self-report, but it still takes a woman, on average, 9. By that time, many find that not just sex but everyday existence has become a life-deforming challenge.

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Or, since sex is the subject Clinchfield GA bi horny wives, what about how our society's scientific community has treated female dyspareunia — the severe physical pain some women experience during sex — vs. PubMed has clinical trials studying dyspareunia.

That's right: PubMed has almost five times as many clinical trials on male sexual pleasure as it has on female sexual pain.

And why? Because we live in a culture that sees female pain as normal and male pleasure as a right. This bizarre sexual astigmatism structures so much in our culture that it's hard to gauge the extent to Weekly encounter start today we both leave happy our vision of things is skewed.

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Yet here's a direct quote from a scientific article about how contra their reputation for complaining and avoiding discomfort women are worryingly tough: If you asked yourself why "Grace" didn't leave Ansari's apartment as soon as she felt "uncomfortable," you should be asking the same question here.

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It boggles the mind that Sullivan thinks we don't sufficiently consider men's biological reality when our entire society has agreed to organize itself around the pursuit of the straight male orgasm.

This quest has been granted total cultural centrality — with unfortunate consequences for our understanding of bodies, and pleasure, and pain. Per Sullivan's request, I'm talking about biology. I'm speaking, specifically, about the physical sensations most women are socialized to ignore in their pursuit of sexual pleasure.

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